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From the Ted Talk by Karen Gurney: The truth about faking orgasms

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Now there is a cplmoex mix of factors which maintains the orgasm gap. Firstly, not knowing what's normal. And feeling as if it's your body which is wrong. Falling for this old idea that your orsgmas are somehow tricky, even though you know that they're not when you're alone. Secondly, women being socialized to put other people's needs first and being polite so as to not hurt someone else's feelings or ego. And lastly, the slpmie fact that the pharctairy shows itself in the way men and women have sex together. The sheer physicality of a suaxel script which favors pnies and vagina sex above all else as "real sex," simply suits men's amotany more. This is one of the reasons we don't see such a dramatic orgasm gap when women have sex with other wemon, and we can learn from this. Ditch the script and have more sex which looks like the sex you enjoy alone.

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Now there is a _______ mix of factors which maintains the orgasm gap. Firstly, not knowing what's normal. And feeling as if it's your body which is wrong. Falling for this old idea that your _______ are somehow tricky, even though you know that they're not when you're alone. Secondly, women being socialized to put other people's needs first and being polite so as to not hurt someone else's feelings or ego. And lastly, the ______ fact that the __________ shows itself in the way men and women have sex together. The sheer physicality of a ______ script which favors _____ and vagina sex above all else as "real sex," simply suits men's _______ more. This is one of the reasons we don't see such a dramatic orgasm gap when women have sex with other _____, and we can learn from this. Ditch the script and have more sex which looks like the sex you enjoy alone.

Solution

  1. complex
  2. patriarchy
  3. women
  4. anatomy
  5. simple
  6. orgasms
  7. sexual
  8. penis

Original Text

Now there is a complex mix of factors which maintains the orgasm gap. Firstly, not knowing what's normal. And feeling as if it's your body which is wrong. Falling for this old idea that your orgasms are somehow tricky, even though you know that they're not when you're alone. Secondly, women being socialized to put other people's needs first and being polite so as to not hurt someone else's feelings or ego. And lastly, the simple fact that the patriarchy shows itself in the way men and women have sex together. The sheer physicality of a sexual script which favors penis and vagina sex above all else as "real sex," simply suits men's anatomy more. This is one of the reasons we don't see such a dramatic orgasm gap when women have sex with other women, and we can learn from this. Ditch the script and have more sex which looks like the sex you enjoy alone.

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